The Black Side of One of Artist Indonesia, the Finalist of Cover Girl 1993

Family / 22 November 2012

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The Black Side of One of Artist Indonesia, the Finalist of Cover Girl 1993

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From the beginning, Tessa Kaunang was just an ordinary girl until one day; she became a finalist of cover girl 1993. “When I became a part of that magazine, it was cool and proud, of course,” said Tessa Kaunang telling her new experience when she was a teenager. “When my face was there, I was really happy,” said Tessa. After becoming a cover girl, Tessa Kaunang tried to enter soap opera with her friends of finalist cover girl.

Since that time, she was involved in glamorous and hedonism. “I was looking for fun by going to the club, where everyone could drink, smoke and had drugs. I did what they did. Moreover, I was still teenager and was eager to find out many things. I tried that one by one. So, it was more comfortable being in outside than in my home. I was never thinking about home anymore,” said Tessa.

What did cause Tessa slack of thinking her home? “My mother was fussy, when she wanted to suggest my father, my father would be angry. He was getting angry and emotional. Both of them were quarrelling and the worst thing was the situation in home was in mess.” Moreover, Tessa was watching that her mother whose tiny body shape was being hit by her emotional father. It made her so depressed.

Apparently her father fell into sin, her father had an affair for 29 years. So, that's why Tessa prefered to be outside, because she was free to do anything she likes. She was doing whatever she likes, including free sex. For her, all that became usual to do because she had already had her own income.

Tessa Kaunang have just had a new rising carrer in 1999-2000 after a long struggle. Because of that, she's very scared if people knew how was her real family life or her personal life.

One day, Tessa suggested her mother to divorce with her father. Related to her opinion, it would be fine if her mother left her father  because she's able to pay for her mother and herself. Even, her father was allowed to take away any stuffs that were in that house, because Tessa believed that her father’s belonging in that house was not much. "I was such arrogant and hated him so much, I had a bitterness to my father" said Tessa.

Despite getting rough treatment, her mother did not want to divorce from her father. In fact, her mother diligently prayed for her husband. "Until I was resentful, too. Even, she was tortured by my father, she still forgave him. " said Tessa.

Tessa Kaunang was a woman who had been formed by her hard character and she did all things she want. If her mother was asking for advice, then Tessa only gave her advice, which was divorce. But her mother did not want to do it. Finally, the mother could only come to God, humble herself and beg her way out.

One of her father’s affair who was finally caught as pregnant and her father was asked to liable. That time, Arthur, her father began to feel restless and eventually he admitted everything that he had an affair. Even so, with a full forgiveness, Julia Kaunang might have forgiven him. Her father was trying to fix his marital relationship and the broken relationship between Tessa and her father .

At first Tessa was very doubtful on her father’s changing. She was wondering if her father would fall again. However, over time after seeing the change in her father that indeed has changed, Tessa was getting the sample of an ideal family back. In addition, Tessa started returning to the gospel of God and do His commandments. If God, Himself could forgive people's sins which were so great, then we should be able to forgive our fellow human beings.

"How could I forgive him? We should ask God for help. If we forgave someone only by our power, we would not make it. That was my truly feeling," said Tessa. She saw a big change within her father, her father was being so thoughtful and reflected the attitude of a good father. Now Tessa and her father become two friends.

They kept going and always looked forward positively. "If we had dared to take the decision to repent, we must dare to be a witness of God. So why do I now dare to tell, because I want my family to be light and salt for us, too. "And believe it, while we are struggling against sin, bitterness or problems, we can win with God.

 

Source: Tessa Kaunang

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