The Real Story: A Wife who had been Threatened by Her Husband for Several Times

Family / 22 November 2012

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The Real Story: A Wife who had been Threatened by Her Husband for Several Times

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His mother’s intimate with a man named Suyono after his parent’s divorcee made Chandra Ditya (Adit) dislike that relation, moreover when his mother showed her interest to that man. All of Suyono’s goodness and hospitality had made him being inconvenient.

In another side, by all those cares and hospitality that Suyono showed to Adit’s mother made Nurcahayati feel in love with Suyono. She even allowed Suyono to stay at her place. This thing made Adit being more upset. Furthermore, his mother kept defending Suyono without any concerning about her son’s feeling.

Even though Adit did not show a good response to their relation, Nurcahaya was eager to marry with Suyono. The wedding had been held without Adit’s presence. “I was really upset. I did not hold their wedding and stayed in my friend’s place,” said Adit who did not go home for 2 days.

His annoying to Suyono made him deciding to take a college out of town. In here, the secret of Suyono’s another side was opened up. His accumulated debts made Nurhayati had to bear his repayments. “Actuallu, when I was married and looked flashback, I felt that I was being trapped by Suyono's figure,” said Nurcahaya.

Once, Nurcahaya was cooking instant noodle for herself. Suddenly, Suyono came by and asked the noodle which was being eaten by Nurcahaya. Because of her tired, Nurcahaya asked her husband to cook it by himself. But, surprisingly Suyono got angry and threw away that noddle which was being eaten by Nurcahaya without care of his wife's condition whom was being pregnant.

“I never thought that I would be threatened badly. I was thinking that my husband would be happy of my pregnancy and loved me more. But, the fact was he harassed me more and more,” said Nurcahaya.

She was so depressed and stressed. As a consequence, she was miscarrying. However, that incident did not make Suyono sorry. Even, he flirted with another women and told that he was a widower. He had not only hurt Nurcahaya physically but also beat her tragically in the new year's night.

Even though she was hurt, she did not want to share her pain to Adit. She's just kept silence while holding that pain by herself.

In 2004, Nurcahaya birthed her second child of Suyono. “Even his child was born, he had not showed his love yet or cared about me. I've just ran and I've just prayed to God. “God, I couldn't survive anymore anymore,” said Nurcahaya who then was eager to join fellowships faithfully.

In fellowship, Nurcahaya felt such extraordinary impacts on her life. “one thing for sure was Jesus loves me very much by His sacrifice on the cross,” said Nurcahaya who being amazed and strong by Jesus's love.

Her power was getting stronger by her fellowship’s supports. It gave her strength in facing her husband's behavior. But, unexpected something happened so he must have taken to the hospital. When he was checked by the doctor, he had a stroke.

Nurcahaya was really shocked when previous days before that accident happened, there was a friend who saw Suyono was dating with a woman. She was very emotional and she reported it to her mother in law and confessed that she had surrendered of her husband.

There is no peace except in God. Nurcahaya went back to complain to God. She then remembered with a spiritual counselor and contacted him immediately. After counseling, Nurcahaya was reminded of God's love, and how she had loved her husband despite being repeatedly hurt her.

Divine intervention occurred. Her heart was softened and made her returning to receive and care for her husband.

Her loyalty and sacrifice had made Adit learned to accept her stepfather. "I would like to receive father. Because the Lord Jesus who enabled me, "said Adit.

"Although I had experienced such bitterness, and my current conditions were far from perfect because my husband illness, but in fact I did not feel it. I felt that Jesus did something and interfere with all things which related to the goodness for my family and I," said Nurcahaya closing her testimony.

 

Source: Nurcahayati

 

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